What’s Your Coaching Essence?

Business has a way of reflecting back what we need to acknowledge. Some times it’s the good stuff being reflected back and other times, it’s areas of opportunity being reflected back.

My personal focus is BEING me and sharing that essence with others.

I’ve received testimonials, dms and reviews from people calling me authentic, compassionate and real. It’s great to hear this feedback since these qualities are the truth of who I am.

Reflections serve as an opportunity to gauge if we are on-course or need to course-correct.

You’d be surprised that most coaches don’t know their own essence. They are trying to build a business from a place of action without the alignment and ease of essence.

Let me know if this sounds familiar…
“I’m not getting consistent Clients.”
“I’m attracting people who aren’t my Ideal Client.”
“I can’t get anyone on the phone with me.”

If this is the message being reflected back to you then something is out of alignment.

Your essence probably isn’t being conveyed. And it’s not your fault, when do you ever hear anyone talking about essence. Never, right?!

Well, not until now, of course.

I’m going to share with you 3 important questions to ask yourself daily in order to uncover your personal essence and create clients with ease and authenticity. Why? Because when you are being the true you, all things come easier.

You might be thinking. What’s a Coaching Essence? And how do I figure out mine?

Over 10 years ago, I learned about something called a “Loving Essence” in Spiritual Psychology. I learned all about my “Loving Essence” and now bring it to my coaching practice. It’s made a huge difference for me in all areas of my life.

It had me thinking, “What about a Coaching Essence?” I know the truth of all of us is loving but when it comes to coaching there’s an essence as well.

There’s something special that you bring to your connections, engagement and interactions. And when you can acknowledge it and align with it, you can become unstoppable.

At a recent mastermind group, it was mirrored back to me that I was hitting a new level of ease in my operations. And I am!

It got me thinking how I have moved from a doing machine to claiming 2018 the year of EASE.
It happened very consciously and intentionally. I caught myself before a massive burnout. Thanks to listening to my body and internal nudges, I was able to shift gears from doing to being.

Check yourself right now. Have you been coming from doing or have you been coming from your being?

It’s a common misstep, and I was experiencing it myself. My mindset was all kinds of wrong. I had the misunderstanding that I had to do more in order to create more in my life and business. It makes sense but wasn’t giving me the inner or outer experience I was intending.

So I had to slow down, create some space and just listen within.

And these 3 questions came forward.

Who am I being?
What is it I truly intend to express?
How can I serve?

These questions are very similar to questions people ask themselves on the spiritual path. What’s beautiful is that they can be used for your business as well. In fact, you want to get clear on questions like this because they help you connect to the deeper reason behind your expression.

These questions supported me in dropping from my head to my heart, relinquishing ego’s grip on my expression and reconnecting me with my true essence.

The truth of who I am is a spiritual being having a human experience. I’m here to express the possibility of using your life’s challenges for self-actualization and actualization of others and the planet. I serve by sharing my truth and expression with others through my writing, videos and content creations. These creations are intended support others in stepping into the highest version of themselves.

Your essence is your truth beyond the human condition. It’s what has always been and always will be. And when you connect with your essence and live, express and share from it, you coaching business takes on a whole new meaning. It becomes less about outcomes and more about experience. Outcomes are important but they don’t define your essence.

Leverage your essence and experience the loving to a whole other level.

I love bringing my essence to ALL I do into this world be it relationships, business, marriage or my coaching partnerships. Let Your Essence Lead the way.

How might focusing on your essence support your life or business?